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Strategic networking and simple systems for business growth
THE STRATEGIC NETWORK
Strategic networking and simple systems for business growth
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Build Real, Not Deal, Relationships
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IN THE SPOTLIGHT
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Power Networker: David Hannan
Biz: āI help US-based professionals with ADHD who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in overthinking as they try to figure out where to begin their job search.ā
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Networking Advice: The 7 networking lessons that ACTUALLY work:
Focus on Giving, Not Taking
Every Conversation = An Opportunity
Your Network Evolves With You
Quality > Quantity
Follow-Up Makes Connections Stick
Show Up Online
Consistency Beats Perfection
Small steps, done consistently, will pay off.
DEEP DIVE
ā Featured Article
Focus on REAL Relationships, Not DEAL Relationships
In business, we often ask ourselves if someone is trying to connect with us because they want something or do they genuinely want to get to know us? It's worth finding out who is the real deal.
āLetās make a deal!ā
Those words I heard from the salesman at the car dealership recently still echo in my head. He really wanted my sale and it made me feel uncomfortable.
His words seemed so old-fashioned and, dare I say, dirty?
It got me thinking ā¦ people can easily connect with us today through social media, so how do we know which professionals are real and which are āabout the dealā (with the rapid advancement of AI, I use the term ārealā both literally and figuratively)
REAL RELATIONSHIPS
Real relationships act as the gasoline fueling the fire of fast-growing companies. People arenāt the key to the success of a company - the right people are!
Real relationships have the following characteristics:
Two professionals are in a mutually beneficial relationship
They genuinely care about each other and want to see each other succeed
They are in long-term and even life-long relationships
In addition, the two people usually know something personal about each other (marriage status, kids, etc.) and eager to learn more about each other.
DEAL RELATIONSHIPS
Deal relationships are superficial. There is a lot of small talk and rarely deep discussions. One person usually has an agenda.
Deal relationships usually have the following characteristics:
The relationship revolves around āa dealā, transaction, or sale
They are usually a one-sided (giver-taker, helper-user, talker-listener, etc.)
Most often, they are short-term relationships
That said, deal relationships arenāt all bad. There are some professionals Iām more than happy to do business with and move on.
But itās those real relationships that I believe people are missing out on. They are often life-changing, business-building, and career-making relationships that can change a personās life.
THE REAL DEAL
āHeās the real dealā
Thereās no better compliment.
Michael Jordan was referred to being the āreal dealā early in his career. There was just something special about him. He went on to become one of the all-time, greatest basketball players in the world.
How can you tell if someone if the real deal?
Usually, it takes time. It takes time to get to know each other and build trust.
But, early on, there are signs to watch for in a person. Do they return your calls? Do they respond to your messages? Are they kind and courteous?
They donāt have to be perfect but they should be genuine.
Donāt be afraid to ātestā people (I call it āexperimental networkingā)
Tell them you would like to chat and catchup. Request a meeting. Ask for a favor.
See whoās there for you.
If they are, you have the real deal.
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