Build Real, Not Deal, Relationships

Strategic networking and simple systems for business growth

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Strategic networking and simple systems for business growth

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  • Shift your thinking ... Build scalable systems

  • A specialist who helps professionals network with ADHD ā€¦.

  • Build Real, Not Deal, Relationships

  • And much moreā€¦

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  • Power Networker: David Hannan

  • Biz: ā€œI help US-based professionals with ADHD who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in overthinking as they try to figure out where to begin their job search.ā€

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  • Networking Advice: The 7 networking lessons that ACTUALLY work:

    1. Focus on Giving, Not Taking

    2. Every Conversation = An Opportunity

    3. Your Network Evolves With You

    4. Quality > Quantity

    5. Follow-Up Makes Connections Stick

    6. Show Up Online

    7. Consistency Beats Perfection

Small steps, done consistently, will pay off.

DEEP DIVE
ā­ Featured Article

Focus on REAL Relationships, Not DEAL Relationships

In business, we often ask ourselves if someone is trying to connect with us because they want something or do they genuinely want to get to know us? It's worth finding out who is the real deal.

ā€œLetā€™s make a deal!ā€

Those words I heard from the salesman at the car dealership recently still echo in my head. He really wanted my sale and it made me feel uncomfortable.

His words seemed so old-fashioned and, dare I say, dirty?

It got me thinking ā€¦ people can easily connect with us today through social media, so how do we know which professionals are real and which are ā€œabout the dealā€ (with the rapid advancement of AI, I use the term ā€œrealā€ both literally and figuratively)

REAL RELATIONSHIPS

Real relationships act as the gasoline fueling the fire of fast-growing companies. People arenā€™t the key to the success of a company - the right people are!

Real relationships have the following characteristics:

  • Two professionals are in a mutually beneficial relationship

  • They genuinely care about each other and want to see each other succeed

  • They are in long-term and even life-long relationships

In addition, the two people usually know something personal about each other (marriage status, kids, etc.) and eager to learn more about each other.

DEAL RELATIONSHIPS

Deal relationships are superficial. There is a lot of small talk and rarely deep discussions. One person usually has an agenda.

Deal relationships usually have the following characteristics:

  • The relationship revolves around ā€œa dealā€, transaction, or sale

  • They are usually a one-sided (giver-taker, helper-user, talker-listener, etc.)

  • Most often, they are short-term relationships

That said, deal relationships arenā€™t all bad. There are some professionals Iā€™m more than happy to do business with and move on.

But itā€™s those real relationships that I believe people are missing out on. They are often life-changing, business-building, and career-making relationships that can change a personā€™s life.

THE REAL DEAL

ā€œHeā€™s the real dealā€

Thereā€™s no better compliment.

Michael Jordan was referred to being the ā€œreal dealā€ early in his career. There was just something special about him. He went on to become one of the all-time, greatest basketball players in the world.

How can you tell if someone if the real deal?

Usually, it takes time. It takes time to get to know each other and build trust.

But, early on, there are signs to watch for in a person. Do they return your calls? Do they respond to your messages? Are they kind and courteous?

They donā€™t have to be perfect but they should be genuine.

Donā€™t be afraid to ā€œtestā€ people (I call it ā€œexperimental networkingā€)

Tell them you would like to chat and catchup. Request a meeting. Ask for a favor.

See whoā€™s there for you.

If they are, you have the real deal.

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